Resources and Articles
For anyone considering divorce, currently separated, or trying to figure out what's next
This is a growing collection of articles on the questions that come up most — before a decision's been made, during a separation, and on the legal and financial and practical everything that goes with it. Some of it's written from what I've seen sit across from couples that I’ve worked with since 2013. Some of it's researched and drafted with AI assistance and reviewed by me before it goes up. Either way, nothing here is published without my own clinical judgment behind it.If you're looking for something specific and don't see it yet, reach out — this list is still being built.
Common topics
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Considering Divorce or Separation
For the stage before anything's been decided — figuring out whether what you're looking at is worth working on.
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During a Separation
For if you're already living apart, or functionally separated under one roof, and trying to figure out what the separation is actually for.
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Talking to Your Partner
For the conversations that are hard to have — bringing up coaching, telling your partner where you stand, telling your kids.
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Co-Parenting & Kids
What kids actually need through a separation or divorce, and what a co-parenting coach or child specialist does.
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Emotional Support & Coping
For the parts of this that aren't logistical — the grief, the ambiguity, the parts nobody prepared you for.